Govern — Practice
Authority without humiliation. Clear limits and predictable supports that protect dignity and keep re‑entry near.
Limits with Dignity
- [bomb]Script|“Feelings allowed. Harm isn’t. We repair, then re‑enter.”[/bomb]
- [bomb]Predictable routines|Same steps, same words; safety by design[/bomb]
- [bomb]Reversible moves|Scale support up/down without shame[/bomb]
Governance Cards
Shape of Day
[bomb]Time economy|Visible schedule with cheap re‑entry slots[/bomb]
Team Check‑ins
[bomb]Coordination|Parents/School/Specialists align on ladders back[/bomb]
Audits
[bomb]Harm‑as‑tool check|No coercion, no outcome guarantees[/bomb]
Return‑to‑Independence
[bomb]Fade supports|Step back when control returns; celebrate exits[/bomb]
Ethics & Observability
- [bomb]No probing interiors|Flux/agency are externally inferred; observe patterns[/bomb]
- [bomb]Difference ≠ danger|Prioritize control/repetition over adult comfort[/bomb]
- [bomb]System stance|Risk is mitigated via preparation and support—not exclusion[/bomb]
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