Movement under resistance shown in starts, tiny attempts, pauses, and re‑entries—never by probing interiors. Treat disengagement as a cost/conflict signal.

• Brush: shrink the stakes; bounded starts (10‑sec, one line).
• Repair: temperature drop; dignity intact; fast re‑entry after rupture.
• Invite: visible ladders back (Level 1 / Level 2 choices).
• Govern: clear limits; feelings allowed; harm isn’t; options shown.

Clear Mirror, Calm Water steadies the adult so attempts become rational; action proceeds only when nəc̓aʔmat holds (validated, not asserted).

[bomb]10‑second start|“Give me 10 seconds of effort; that’s it.”[/bomb]
• [bomb]Two‑path re‑entry|“Level 1 or Level 2 to rejoin—your call.”[/bomb]