Parents & Families (East)
Origin of the daily story. Small moves at home change the cost of trying; use language that de‑threatens effort.
Seat Responsibilities
- Preserve safety, dignity, and belonging during struggle.
- Lower the cost of entry for trying again at home and school.
- Coordinate with school to keep re‑entry visible and rational.
BRIG in this Seat
Brush
Normalize the state; shrink stakes; offer the smallest viable start (10‑seconds, one line, one step).
Repair
Impact → empathize → boundary → next right step. Dignity intact; quick re‑entry.
Invite
Bounded choices (A/B; near/far; sketch/words). Make re‑entry feel rational and safe.
Govern
Predictable routines; limits with dignity. Feelings allowed. Harm isn’t. We repair, then re‑enter.
Ethic & Posture
- Stewardship, not ownership: provide conditions; don’t compel success.
- Clear Mirror, Calm Water: regulate yourself first; see what is; act proportionally.
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